From rags to riches – mentally…
Hi, I am Lucya Lalita but feel free to call me Lucya – or even just Lu…
Who am I and if so, how many?
Professionally I am: a spirit sex rebel, a source of inspiration, a tantric life-, sex- and relationship coach as well as a leader of shamanic cacao ceremonys.
Personally I am: part-time hippie, part-time hedonist, an open-minded and unconventional visionary, openly married and an ecstatic dancer who gets really happy when seeing soap bubbles and cats.
Generally I am: unboxable – and very thrilled to be part of this amazing transition of human history!
How I became what I am now
My path took me to the brink of human abyss and beyond in my earliest childhood through emotional, physical and sexual abuse. Through this traumatization, I spent my childhood and adolescence in a state of inner division, mistrust and struggled a lot with myself and the world in general.
Understanding why people harm themselves and each other so much was my motivation for my first study in psychology and sociology.
When I found no answers there and realized that the answers to these questions were not important, but that it was about helping people (and myself) to stop it and heal from their traumas, I studied social work and began my education as a non-medical practitioner for psychotherapy.
During this time, I went to search for the answers to the really important questions of life and by doing so I kinda accidentially stumbled over my own soul. Since then I stopped believing in things happening accidentially…
My healing journey
This “stumbling over my own soul” in August 2012 was the turning point in my life, ringing in a healing journey I never thought possible.
I understood that I am NOT this body to which so much suffering and pain was done, but that what I REALLY AM is eternal, joyful and indestructible. A part of me was and is eternally whole, untouched, innocent and free – always!
This realization hit me completely unexpectedly and with such full force that I dropped my studies, quit my two jobs and my apartment, left my relationship and my hometown and went on my first longer travel to search for my true self.
Tantra and healing work – my vocation
On this travel, I met my first teacher, who correctly assessed my abilities and talents and gave me my first ordinations into Tantra and tantric massage therapy.
For over two and a half years, I worked in a shared practice for tantric massage in Hamburg and constantly expanded my knowledge and skills through further education and trainings in the areas of tantra, tantric massage, energy work, coaching, meditation, process support, transformational work and trauma healing.
Because of homesickness I went back to my hometown Cologne in 2015 and founded a spiritual center in my living room. Together with a growing group of people I organised meetings for meditation, women, spiritual exchange, cuddling, Tantra and celebration of life.
The next step
When I met my sweetheart in 2016, I started a second, longer self-discovery journey through Southern Europe. On this journey, my next professional step, focused on teaching, coaching and inspiring, was revealed to me.
Since then I am creating my way of taking action in service of the big transformation of humanity. This creation concluded in a year long holistic and integrated love, sex and relationship coaching certification with the wonderful Layla Martin and an amazing group of 250 women from all over the world throughout 2018.
When this is finished I will go to Peru to build up an ecovillage as a big playground to experiment with a different way of living together, relating, bringing up kids, caring for the land and for the community.
I wholeheartedly invite you to have a look at and be inspired by my work, my lyrics and my blog – to dive deeper into the subject of Conscious Sexuality, get intensely motivated, heal your inner child, resolve deep-seated blocks, and to embody your true, authentic self – every day, more and more.
Its my pleasure to inspire and work with people like you because I know that you wanna make a difference on this planet, just like I do. Otherwise you wouldn´t be here (remember, I don´t believe in coincidence anymore). And for really making a difference on this planet we need to un-cover our true essence. And I don´t know any better way than unleashing our ecstatic potential to reconnect to our true essence! The techniques and tools I am working with are designed to help you do that on all levels.
Living a conscious, tantric life is about so much more than „just sex“ – but sex and accessing sexual energy is an important part of life that most therapists, trainers and coaches exclude from their work. Mostly because they themselves have not been wrestling with their own inner demons in that area and therefor feel uncomfortable speaking about it.
That´s why I am so glad to see some major shifts happening in this area as well and I love to be part of this „sexual revolution 2.0“!
You can find out more about how I work on my „Coaching“ page by clicking the link below.
I am looking forward to the meeting of our souls, our journey together and especially to your big and beautiful transformation as part of the big and beautiful transformation of this planet. The new world has begun – let´s be part of the solution!