About the Blog, about me and about you
Tantra is not only combining sexuality with spirituality and personal growth – it even focuses on it as one of the main sources of life energy!
Tantra is no religion – you don´t need to believe anything.
Tantra is an open invitation to get practical and it gives you heaps of tools and techniques to proof its effectiveness. It picks you up where you are – every desire is valid. There are no “higher” or “lower” desires.
The desire for pleasure, good sex and money is as valid as the desire for spiritual awakening.
You decide yourself how deep you wanna dive into the spiritual aspects.
In my blog and my work I offer a lot of different practical techniques on awakening and improving your sexual energy for deeper and more intense pleasure – with yourself and others.
Embarking on a thriving sexual journey highly enhances the experience and flow of a better love and a better life!
Tantra unites the former opposites into a harmonious whole and helps your relationship to thrive to to a never known level of love and intimacy.
To let the dynamics of the masculine and feminine flow into a vivid and strong relationship is one of the most valuable experiences two (or more) people can share with each other.
Exchanging boredom, fights and power struggles for deep love, desire and intimacy is the priceless value of a shared tantric practise for every couple.
In my blog you find guidance and inspiration on diving fully into your feminine and mascule essence. Once you found your home in there your relationship is able to thrive in appreciation and reverence for each other.
On top of this, it provides lots of tools and techniques for an amazing relationship to yourself – making selflove a foundation for every blossoming relationship with any other person.
True ecstasy comes through unconditional love for all aspects of our being. For all our emotions – whether pleasant or unpleasant – and for all the joys and challenges that life has to offer.
Only when we embrace life fully we are able to truly live instead of just survive.
Conscious sexuality is an amazing tree in the tantric forest! But rather than practised just as an end in itself it is practised to serve the greater goal of a vibrant, xtatic and fullfilled life in all aspects.
When we start with the transformation of one aspect it often leads to a transformation of other aspects as well.
I love Tantra so much, because it doesn´t force us to get rid of parts of ourself to heal and to grow but to embrace our “unloved children” so that they can relax, heal and naturally integrate in a healthy and lasting way.
That´s why you find a lot of inspiration on how to live a life full of happyness, (self)love and freedom.
Hi, I am Lucya Inanna but feel free to call me Lucya – or even just Lu…
Who am I and if so, how many?
Professionally I am: a spirit sex rebel, a source of inspiration, a tantric body-, sex- and relationship coach as well as a prospective tantra teacher.
Personally I am: part-time hippie, part-time hedonist, an open-minded and unconventional visionary, openly married, an xtatic dancer, a soap bubble and cat lover.
Generally I am: unboxable – and very thrilled to be part of this amazing transition of human history.
How I became what I am now
My path took me to the brink of human abyss and beyond in my earliest childhood through emotional, physical and sexual abuse. Through this traumatization, I spent my childhood and adolescence in a state of inner division, mistrust and struggle against myself and my fellow human beings.
Understanding why people harm themselves and each other so much was my motivation for my first study in psychology and sociology.
When I found no answers there and realized that the answer to this question was not important, but that it was about helping people to stop it and heal from their traumas, I studied social work and began my education as a non-medical practitioner for psychotherapy.
During this time, I went to search for the answers to the really important questions of life and by doing so I stumbled over my own soul.
My healing journey
This “stumbling over my own soul” in August 2012 was the turning point in my life, heralding a healing journey I never thought possible.
I understood that I am NOT this body to which so much suffering and pain was done, but that what I REALLY AM is eternal, joyful and indestructible. A part of me was and is eternally whole, untouched, innocent and free!
This realization hit me completely unexpectedly and with such full force that I dropped my studies, quit my two jobs and my apartment, left my relationship and my hometown and went on a travel in search of my true self.
Tantra and healing work – my vocation
On this travel, I met my first teacher, who correctly assessed my abilities and talents and gave me my first ordinations in Tantra and tantric massage.
For over two and a half years, I worked in a shared practice for tantric massage in Hamburg and constantly expanded my knowledge and skills through further education and trainings in the areas of tantra, tantric massage, energy work, coaching, meditation, process support, transformation work and trauma coping.
Because of homesickness I went back to my hometown Cologne in 2015 and founded a spiritual center in my living room. Together with a growing group of people I organised meetings for meditation, women, spiritual exchange, cuddling, Tantra and celebration.
The next step
When I met my sweetheart in 2016, I started a second, longer self-discovery journey through Southern Europe with him. On this journey, my next professional step, much more focused on teaching, coaching and inspiring, was revealed to me.
What better place could there be for this right now than Berlin?
I am happy to create my own place of action and new offers here in this vibrant, exciting city. My tantric temple where I can put my skills, my knowledge, my experience and my heart into the service of the people!
I wholeheartedly invite you to visit me in my temple – to dive deeper into the subject of tantra, get intensely cuddled and held, heal your inner child, resolve deep-seated blocks, and to become more and more your true, authentic self.
If you want to know more about my view of sexuality in the context of becoming one, I invite you to read my ecstatic manifesto.
I am look forward to our souls meeting, our journey together and especially to your transformation – the unfolding of your wonderful, powerful, radiant self!
Is The Xtatic Revolution right for you?
Now that you know what this page is all about and a little bit more about me, I give you an idea, wether or not you can benefit from riding the transformation wave with me.
The Xtatic Revolution is right for you, when…
…you KNOW deep down inside that sex is one of the most powerful and beautyful experiences in a human life
…you KNOW that there is MORE to your life than you have experienced yet – and that this MORE is not only the next step on your carrer ladder
…you are eager to move out of your comfort zone and challenge yourself to that MORE you know is possible
…you want to experience more self-love, self-confidence and a real standing in your life
…you want to learn about what is holding you back from being the person you want to be, have the love life and the relationship you crave to have and life the life you are meant to live
…you crave to overcome these blockages and you are willing to try out new and unusual ways to achieve new and unexpected results
…you have experienced sexual trauma, abuse, violence or harrasment in your life and you are no longer willing to let your past control your future
…you want to heal sexual shame, guilt and fear that lingers inside of you because of being born and raised in our anti-ecstatic culture
…you want to befriend your body and see and feel it as your temple where your soul loves to live in, rather than a scary and imperfect enemy you can´t get away from
…you want to take your relationship to a new level of intimacy and sexual vibrancy
…you were always kinda curious about Tantra but the way it was presented was either too esoteric or too focused on only sex
…you want to learn more about how sexual energy, personal growth and self-realization belong together
…you want to be part of the pioneer group for a new xtatic culture, where self-love and self-realization is the norm and shame, guilt and fear are faint rememberings of a very strange past
The Xtatic Revolution is not for you, when…
…you want to stay in that nice little cosy spot called comfort zone for now or the rest of your life
…you think there isn´t any more for you that life has to offer or you don´t wish to expand any further and learn any more
…you are generally not interested in sexuality and the impact it has on your day to day life (you might would have to overthink point 1 if you think too much here)
…you want your sex life and your everyday life to stay as it is
…you are unwilling to feel and explore the deeper realms of your inner universe
…you tend to give the responsibility about your life into the hands of others
…you are too afraid of the opinion of other people and let this fear control your decisions of your daily life
…you rather spend your days moaning about the shit in your life instead of taking action and moaning from pleasure